Be yourself and be calm at all times. If you aren't, then everything probably won't work out in your favor. Don't be too chatty or try to be someone you're not.
2 It's important to be yourself, but there are certain acceptable ways to bend this rule a bit. For example, most guys like different kinds of music than we do. And they like doing different stuff too, like playing video games. Be yourself, but be flexible. You could try getting into their music, or learning how to play Call of Duty. They'll think you're unique, and simply a legend. Don't go too far out of your comfort zone though. You don't want to do anything you really don't give a crap about. Conversely, it doesn't really matter if you both like totally different things. Just try to find something you both like together.
Be Attentive
1Talk with him, joke with him, and flirt with him. However, make sure that you aren't around him too much or initiating all the contact. If he's not asking to see you again that could be your hint to move on.
2Smile a lot and be extra friendly. Be nice like you are with your best friends. If he senses you're being too clingy or even protective, he may lose interest.
3Laugh with him, not at him. Unless, of course, he's invited you to laugh at him. You don't want to make him uncomfortable.
4Be positive. Don't ask a guy a question like this: "Oh, I'm so fat. Don't you think?" It will put him in an awkward position. He won't know if you're fishing for a compliment or a little sympathy. Common sense should tell you to avoid asking questions you don't want an answer to.
Be Careful Not to Give the Wrong Impression
1You can wear revealing clothes, just don't make yourself look too eager. However, wearing soccer shorts and a T-shirt all the time is a turnoff. Wear clothes that look good on you and show off your best features.
2Try not to play with your hair unless you are trying to flirt, it can make you look insecure.
3If you like him, avoid flirting in a physically way. If you see that he doesn't like it very much, you should lay off. It will also make you look more mature if you're not hanging off him.
4Experiment with acting cute and a little bit silly. You could also try being hard-to-get. Don't go overboard on the whole hard-to-get thing. Being cute lets you get away with lots of things which can sometimes be embarrassing like accidentally spilling a drink and other general clumsiness. Be careful with being silly. You want to make sure it's not out of line.
Tips
Never interrupt if he's doing something you don't like.
Treat him with respect. If you're trying to get his attention, treat him a little bit nicer, just don't be annoying.
Compliment him. He will get a mini ego boost. It won't look obvious that you like him, and he will love you for it!
Smile often and laugh at his jokes, no matter how stupid they are. But don't laugh too much or insincerely.
Look at the guy you like just enough so he knows you're flirting. Try and make eye contact, especially while smiling.
Try to relax and have fun! If you're having fun, you'll be yourself without worrying about anything negative!
Make a joke or be silly. Smile at him if he reacts.
Be calm and be mature.
Respect his privacy and keep anything he tells you in confidence to yourself.
Remember that relationships only work and thrive on honesty, trust, working things out together, commitment, love, kindness and openness.
Try your best to keep your cool. Remember to take slow deep breaths if you're going to lose it.
Try to wait for him to come forward sometimes. If you always go forward first, it makes you look very desperate.
Be easy going and willing to try something different. This way he will have more interest in inviting you to more places with him.
Warnings
Don't ever stereotype guys and assume that they are all the same. Just like girls, every guy is different. So if something worked for one guy, don't assume it will work for them all.
Be careful if he invites you to participate in an activity that you and your girl friends wouldn't normally do. Be open to new things, but use sense.
Never go too fast, but don't move too slow either. If you're too fast, it'll scare him. But if you go too slow, he might lose interest.
Don't be mean or say anything mean, even if you think it's a joke.
Don't act like a drama queen around him. Most guys don't like that kind of behavior.
Try not to stare at him 24/7. He'll get a little annoyed and uncomfortable with it.
Whatever you do, do what you truly want to be or do, not what you think he wants you to be or do. It's true with your girlfriends too. You'll feel much better in the long run.
Don't be an obnoxious flirt.
Don't over-do the jokes, it'll make you look like you're trying too hard.
Don't suffocate him. Give him some space.
Don't ditch your friends. Guys like girls who are loyal and he will be happy you're not living in his pocket.
Let him talk to other girls. Don't be over-possessive. Don't say things like, "Get away from him, he's mine!" Most guys don't like that.
If a boy invites you to a party and tells you not to bring anyone else, he means it.
2 It's important to be yourself, but there are certain acceptable ways to bend this rule a bit. For example, most guys like different kinds of music than we do. And they like doing different stuff too, like playing video games. Be yourself, but be flexible. You could try getting into their music, or learning how to play Call of Duty. They'll think you're unique, and simply a legend. Don't go too far out of your comfort zone though. You don't want to do anything you really don't give a crap about. Conversely, it doesn't really matter if you both like totally different things. Just try to find something you both like together.
Be Attentive
1Talk with him, joke with him, and flirt with him. However, make sure that you aren't around him too much or initiating all the contact. If he's not asking to see you again that could be your hint to move on.
2Smile a lot and be extra friendly. Be nice like you are with your best friends. If he senses you're being too clingy or even protective, he may lose interest.
3Laugh with him, not at him. Unless, of course, he's invited you to laugh at him. You don't want to make him uncomfortable.
4Be positive. Don't ask a guy a question like this: "Oh, I'm so fat. Don't you think?" It will put him in an awkward position. He won't know if you're fishing for a compliment or a little sympathy. Common sense should tell you to avoid asking questions you don't want an answer to.
Be Careful Not to Give the Wrong Impression
1You can wear revealing clothes, just don't make yourself look too eager. However, wearing soccer shorts and a T-shirt all the time is a turnoff. Wear clothes that look good on you and show off your best features.
2Try not to play with your hair unless you are trying to flirt, it can make you look insecure.
3If you like him, avoid flirting in a physically way. If you see that he doesn't like it very much, you should lay off. It will also make you look more mature if you're not hanging off him.
4Experiment with acting cute and a little bit silly. You could also try being hard-to-get. Don't go overboard on the whole hard-to-get thing. Being cute lets you get away with lots of things which can sometimes be embarrassing like accidentally spilling a drink and other general clumsiness. Be careful with being silly. You want to make sure it's not out of line.
Tips
Never interrupt if he's doing something you don't like.
Treat him with respect. If you're trying to get his attention, treat him a little bit nicer, just don't be annoying.
Compliment him. He will get a mini ego boost. It won't look obvious that you like him, and he will love you for it!
Smile often and laugh at his jokes, no matter how stupid they are. But don't laugh too much or insincerely.
Look at the guy you like just enough so he knows you're flirting. Try and make eye contact, especially while smiling.
Try to relax and have fun! If you're having fun, you'll be yourself without worrying about anything negative!
Make a joke or be silly. Smile at him if he reacts.
Be calm and be mature.
Respect his privacy and keep anything he tells you in confidence to yourself.
Remember that relationships only work and thrive on honesty, trust, working things out together, commitment, love, kindness and openness.
Try your best to keep your cool. Remember to take slow deep breaths if you're going to lose it.
Try to wait for him to come forward sometimes. If you always go forward first, it makes you look very desperate.
Be easy going and willing to try something different. This way he will have more interest in inviting you to more places with him.
Warnings
Don't ever stereotype guys and assume that they are all the same. Just like girls, every guy is different. So if something worked for one guy, don't assume it will work for them all.
Be careful if he invites you to participate in an activity that you and your girl friends wouldn't normally do. Be open to new things, but use sense.
Never go too fast, but don't move too slow either. If you're too fast, it'll scare him. But if you go too slow, he might lose interest.
Don't be mean or say anything mean, even if you think it's a joke.
Don't act like a drama queen around him. Most guys don't like that kind of behavior.
Try not to stare at him 24/7. He'll get a little annoyed and uncomfortable with it.
Whatever you do, do what you truly want to be or do, not what you think he wants you to be or do. It's true with your girlfriends too. You'll feel much better in the long run.
Don't be an obnoxious flirt.
Don't over-do the jokes, it'll make you look like you're trying too hard.
Don't suffocate him. Give him some space.
Don't ditch your friends. Guys like girls who are loyal and he will be happy you're not living in his pocket.
Let him talk to other girls. Don't be over-possessive. Don't say things like, "Get away from him, he's mine!" Most guys don't like that.
If a boy invites you to a party and tells you not to bring anyone else, he means it.
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